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AGE DISPARITY: Maintain The Equilibrium

Age plays an important role in a relationship. A large gap in years can mean more differences with your partner. Communication, interests, and lifestyle. It matters but it should not scare both parties if there is a potential nurturing and loving relationship. Instead of focusing on your differencs, it's good to highlight on similarities. It's good for your relationship to spend time on things you both enjoy, it makes the differences in age less significant if you have a framework based on common interests and understanding.

Feeling Younger

In the variation of age, this can hold an advantage and strength in a relationship if you permit it. A new and fresh perspective on life and lead to a wider idea on your horizons are factors and just few effects on people getting along with older or younger than them having a good amount of years being with those people. With your partner around, it can help reconnect you to a more vibrant lifestyle and gives you the feeling of getting younger. On the same note, there is much to be learned of from a person who has the experienced than not. More likely an old partner has passed the game of life that gives you an easier view of life than being with your peers.

EQUILIBRIUM

Going out of your comfort zone and giving in a little plays an important role on every relationship - no matter if you're on the same level or 20 years apart. Never do things that makes you feel uncomfortable, but that depends. If someone is younger than you, then try to go down the same with his once a month maybe - :) if you want to keep up this kind of relationship. Maintain the balance - the equilibrium on both parties, this showers respect with your partner and where they're coming from.

IT IS JUST FIGURES

The only way to hold on to a kind of relationship having a gap of ages between you and your partner is to bare in mind that this so-called AGE is just a NUMBER. Your friends, peers, colleagues, Families may be uneasy about the situation but take time to really introduce them to the person - YOUR PARTNER who he is, what he is, and bound to the person you're in love with that in this case your partner will surely do his part as well. It is a natural human reaction to second-guess things at times- but as long as you are comfortable and happy in your relationship with your partner whether they're 25 or 65, then who cares about age differences?

Love is such a beautiful thing. If you found it, manage to hold on to it, dont just let go. Count yoursel not just lucky but truly blessed. Some people let go of love, some fall out of love, some just take advantage on love, some just play love, but SOME PEOPLE HOLD on to the ties of what they called LOVE.

You truly love someone when you can feel every Joy, sadness, and pain of the others as if they were your own- no age was mentioned but never laugh on age difference coz you'll never know what will happen next. Be cautious!

Remember this quote, "You know you truly love somebody when they hurt you so badly, but all you can think about it is the times when they made you smile."

So every moment- a priceless moment is when the person that you have fallen in love with, would look into your eyes and would tell you that he/she is in love with you and would care not nor laugh and defend you when age differences takes out of control.

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