RELATIONSHIPS

When people talks about saerching partners that they deeply wanna spend their whole life with, the topic invariably gets around to the topic "soulmates".

Soul mate has been what people thinking and looking- that special connection like you've "come home," like you never want to be apart. Some find this on their partner, but most of us encountered pitfalls around the whole soul mate mystery.

Basically the belief of having no-conflicts and non-major issues to work through are main pitfalls in one soul mate spark evolution. They have pure bliss all of the time. We wish this were real but unfortunately it just don't happen for most of us. This is why people easily gets upset and disenchanted when they find that perfect someone who they consider as their soul mate and it turns sour worse bitter after a few months or even just weeks.

At first, there are reasons behind their soul mates that drive them crazy but later they will realize that there are conflicts between them and the passion just seems to disappear.

Somehow there are a lot of soul mates out there for different times in our lives and they come not only to give gladness but to enrich us with our personal and spiritual growth. A soul mate agrees to be with you for awhile to learn and also teach. A soul mate relationship is a spiritual bond and the trials that arises are the soul lessons that you both agreed to learn together.

We believe that just as your various soul mates can be a part of your life "for a time being,a reason or a season"-- most of us believe that soul mates can be stopped when you both know that there are no benefits to consider already.

Whoops, but before anything else --- you might say "woo-woo" or "this has gone a little too far "out there", you might consider this...

Regardless of the type of relationship you're thinking about, if both of you are truly close and connected---soul mate kind of relationship doesn't matter there's always a certain spiritual quality to them.

I met some friends of mine experience a kind of relationship where both of them comes together without any spark but still feels like a soul mate kind of experience, it feels like destiny or some sort of divine intervention has been interceded on both of them.

So to be specific, what is really a soul mate thing?

It is that spark of desire to draw near and connect with a love and passion that keeps growing and firm throught the year.

Is it possible?

We know it is because most of us experience it- though it may not happen to you so far but we both it is there and we also know that we can create it.

How? Here are some that were gathered from reliable source:

1. Commitment: Commit time and energy for both of you- passion and love for each other. 10-15 mins a day of true connection can help rejuvenate a relationship that was once close and now seems disconnected.

2. Kindness Matters: Mutualism this one often been shared on both partners. They treat each other with less respect though than they do strangers. Take a glimpse on any one closes to you on how you treat them and then let them feel as a special soul partners that they truly are- with kindness and respect.

3. Curiosity: The time you wake up triggered by your partner or anyone closes to you, take a deep breath and get curious instead of reacting. We know that it's easier said than done but try it. Be eager to find out what's truly going on between the two of you and sensitive enough to listen underneath the disturbance. What want, need or desire is trying to be expressed for both of you? Listen from your heart and mind- let them both go as one.

4. Shift: As yourself: "What do I want?" "What do I care about right now?"

What actions or words will bring closer rather than further from what you want and what you care about?

Just a small shift of mind, like simply pausing for a moment before you attend to someones party, nor email someone in anger. This can make a big impact on your relationship and can make difference between the two of you and help keep your spark alive and never letting it die over time.

We choose our partners for different reasons and feeling. Some we consider soul mate and some are like passersby.

If you want to keep it, grow with it, rekindle on the spark between the two of you - then begin on few things by simply starting on doing thing each day to nurture it.

For now, if you aren't currently with any one you consider to be a soul mate or a partner, you migh begin practicing as if he or she is with you in a time just in a form of the people who are closes to you or those who are in your life right now.

Stay cool and have fun in finding your soul mate spark!!!