NEW YEARS RESOLUTION: You & Your Partner

2012--- end of the world? or not?--- I say it is the end of 2011..:) A brand new year is coming, everyone is getting ready- ready for a get-up, ready for a prosperous year, ready for everything, getting ready for their resolution as well. New Years Resolution has a bad rap for being left unfulfilled; however there are differences of making a resolution as a lover or within yourself. There are possibilities that it can be fruitful and can grow yourself or make your relationship better. I encountered lovers or couples listed their resolutions, some fulfilled- some failed. This enumeration of resolution for couple will guide you to start this 2012 right, and keep the love burning all year long.

These holidays, people encounter tragedies, trials, and difficulties in life. Do something philanthropic. This season everyone feels charitable and generous. Many people volunteer for the homeless, or unfortunate ones. Nevertheless, a lot of organizations need to have volunteer not just during Christmas or New Year but on other months as well if need be. So, why not decide to join a volunteer work once a week with you and your partner.

Remember, that the generosity you do for others who needs it will come back to your relationship and to both of you a thousand folds.

Make intimacy a priority. When you think that the relationship is getting older and boring, usually intimacy wanes. It is good to make your relationship an exception by making this a priority and giving it an ample time. When you give time and attention to your passion and intimacy, you get updates with each other's needs and the changes you have, thus making your relationship grow more and meaningful through time.

Communicate with passion. Think before you say, but say it with passion. Communication is important, when dealing with intimacy being your top priority then communication should be along the wire during this moment. This helps give you a complete understanding of love- which you should see it with your partner.

Stop the power play. Power play is present in almost all relationship. No one really eats pride everytime there are arguements, and each of us holds desired power and authority. However, you can always put an end to this by, first- stop squabbling over petty things. It is unnecessary. Second, not keeping score. Third, keeping a sense of humor. This attitude should prevail among all characters you have- even dealing with pride. Always live by this "It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride."

Generosity is giving more than you can, than pride which is taking less than you need. Pride is seldom delicate, it will please itself with very mean advantages; and envy feels not its own happiness but when it may be compared with the misery of others.

A Blessed, Blissful and Prosperous New Year Everyone!!!!