Where Do Broken Hearts Go?

This blog was created in the intention of learning not just our own self but others as well, especially towards our partners. I thought that by reaching out to couples who have made it work, that might gain the hope needed for some who have failed to move forward in their quest for love.

Turns out, the plan worked. More than a number of individuals get into my venture, the black veil lifted. I learned about working together, communication and commitment. I learned that a real relationship is challenging, but that if both individuals are truly in it for the right cause, it’s truly worth all the struggle. Delight comes and goes, but real love is always there, masking systems, minds and spirits like a hidden swath of clothing. Love shields you. It warms you. Generally, it’s got you covered.

All the amazing readers were truly changing their perception. I was happy and quite ready to share the things and as well as to find the outcome among the readers.

So one couple offered the chance sharing the experience.  Here it goes: A few steps forward, and landed in something quite lovely. For awhile, they were beginning to feel tiny whispers of love through their ears, dangling like invisible pearl earrings. Then dropped into their coffee, like pearls of sweet joy. Then soon it was floating through their bloodstream like hope.The caffeine that let them feel awake.

Turns out, thought it would not be enough for them. Like all the times before, when a smile or foreign language, or the fact like going out to a dinner twirling like a bellierina but this time it is different for both of them. This time, they looked for the things they have learned about how the alignment of couples values, their shared world and emotional capacity. They never cared to noticed those things before until it burst thought as clear as the sky.

In every relationship, each of us may have different reasons, several reason, many reasons however that wouldn't be enough and all of those are just base on hours of careful thought and tons of reflection. It doesn't even make it any easier.


Love was like a slinky. We need to grasp about it. And we need to remember, all of these are just borrowed thus it isn't ours to hold for long nor forever, but it is for us to cherish each moment.

I've been wondering a lot, when you lose your heart, where does it go? Does it stuck into a corner of your body you cant think of or blend with the environment? Does it recoil into its own like a turtle in its shell, retreating from the world? Or does it just go asleep? Taking a break from feeling for awhile as it slowly begins to mend?

We might as well like to think that our hearts were just asleep. Letting it rest during hard times and the struggle of break up, giving time and being gentle is the best key of finding where your heart is during break ups.

Being stunned in a few minutes, I felt it beating quietly inside my chest and awake. But upon pondering on those past break up? It just say not ready yet for another round, but ready to start the journey from the beginning where it last left off. Ready to start believing again. Ready to keep trying. But believing and trying for the same person called to be my partner...

Stay tuned......