A MOMENT OF CLARITY

Each of us is a unique individual. It is not necessary to say or ask why im not like her/him, why i am like this and not like that of her/him.We have weaknesses and strength, but it is within us how to overcome those weaknesses and utilize it as our strength.

Sometimes we block our dreams when we allow our fears to grow bigger than our FAITH. You may not believe this, but I say that nothing in life is to be feared of. It is only to be understood. This so called FEAR is just a darkroom where negatives develop.

The help you share to others - considered as your COURAGE. The time when you helped them, when you give advices, when you share your courage is the time you show that there is nothing to worry about. The only permanent emotion of the inferior of man is fear - fear of the unknown, the complex, the inexplicable.

Sometimes there is a time for us to take counsel of our fears, and there is a time to never listen to any fear. Always remember: There is much in the world that can make us afraid of. But there is much more in our FAITH to make us UNAFRAID of. 

The next chapter will give us hint on how to overcome fear though a 2 cents from this blog on how to overcome fear is: having a cheerful frame of mind, reinforce by relaxation is the best medicine that puts all ghosts of fear on the run.

The fear we feel within us is like a static energy that prevents us from hearing ourselves. Sometimes, because of fear we become so foolish with every decisions we make. Who is more foolish, the child afraid of the dark or a man afraid of the light? I have learned over the years with all the problems I have experienced, and knowing I'm living alone by myself that when one's mind is made up, this DIMINISHES FEAR. 

FEAR: they are just considered as FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL. Just have faith, never fear to suffer nor sacrifice. He who fears to suffer, suffers from FEAR.


Stay tune for the next one...........

Goal Setting

As discussed on the previous topic of Self Development Plan,one of the tools is about goal setting.

Goal setting needs no prerequisite of being someone famous, nor a professional athlete or the CEO of a multibillion company just for us to set our goals. Instead, what you need to be is an individual who desires SUCCESS - be in your career, family or perhaps with personal finances which everyone dreamed of.

Setting goals is simply an organized personal planning process. A reliable procedures for identifying something you want to achieve - whether a long-term one or a short-term goal, thus it may be your personal life or your profession. Along with the process of setting your goals, it gives you the discipline you need to achieve real and lasting success.

To begin with, the first step is to take some time to decide what direction you want your life to take. From that way of discipline, goal setting helps you focused on your chosen direction and could serve as an access point any time you feel you have strayed from your determined path. In this way, it could lead to another benefits which is to help you more accurate in identifying obstacles that could serve as storms, or walls in your path to success and happiness.

Text Pal

Another story for this week:

Hope you guys like the story, well, I guess it's  worth my time posting it...

My cellphone's beeping sound woke me up one night. Used to receiving important messages only, I grabbed my cellphone and sleepily pressed the keys and read the message. "Hi there! Care 2 b my txtmate?" Not knowing who the sender was, I deleted the message right away and placed the phone on my bedside table. I tried to go back to sleep. I had just closed my eyes when I heard the message tone again."Hi there, again! Care 2 b my txtmate?" again, the message said. "Who the hell could this be asking for a textmate at the wee hours of the night?" I asked myself. Again, I deleted the message without bothering to reply. I was never a 'textmaniac' - someone who enjoys texting anyone and everyone even in the wee hours of the night, not to mention during the day. My parents who were always abroad, forced me to own a cellphone. They told me that having one was more convenient - they could monitor me even if they're miles away. I wanted to turn the cellphone off. However, since my mother was fond of calling me at night just to check if I am safe at home, I decided not to.

Just as I was about to close my eyes and return to my dreamless sleep, the phone beeped again. It was from the same number! Such determination! "Ply reply 2 dis msg & b an angel & save me frm dis abyss of emptiness!"

I never knew why but the message struck me. I got up and pressed the keys. I realized I was replying to the message.

"Im not an angel, n if u want som1 2 save u, Im not superman. Im just a simple person whom u woke up in d mid of d nite! Nway, do I know u?" I typed.

Seconds later came the reply. "Nope. U don't know dis lonely soul. Nor does she know u. But I want 2 b ur frnd. I'm Mikaella Cervantes. U?"

"Just call me Julius. How did u get my no.?" I sent back.

"Hi Julius, nice 2 meet u. Just shuffled the last two digits of mine" she replied.

ABRUPT SHOULDERS: LA SHOPPERS SCRAP ON BLACK FRIDAY

Los Angeles shopper pepper-sprayed a fellow competition for an Xbox and tussle broke out elsewhere around United States as mercenaries crowded stores in an earlier-than-usual beginning of Black Friday.

Unusual event takes place, chains such as Target, Best Buy and Kohl's are available until midnight on the most anticipated shopping day of the year. More stores like Toy R Us are still opene on Thanksgiving itself knowing shoppers come in handy with sharp elbows.

An accident caught in an electronics department near Muskegon, a teenage girl was knocked down and stepped on several times in a Walmart. Finding from medical team was all minor injuries.

Another Walmart in LA brought out a crate of discounted Xboxes, a woman fired pepper spray at the other shoppers "in order to get an advantage" as what investigation said before the video game players were unwrapped.

The chaos results to cuts and bruises to ten people and another ten having a minor injuries caught from the act. Suspect escaped from the chaos and authorities cant clear out things whether she got an Xbox.

Another incident happen during Friday morning, two women were injured and New York Walmart fight charges one man. Arrest in a scuffle at a jewelry counter in Walmart Kissimee, Fla.

The nation's biggest retailer has take steps in recent years controlling incidents that happened during Black Fridays following 2008 death count. It staggered its door-buster this year instead of offering all at once. Unfortunate incidents happen but still most of US location were still safe during Black Friday.

Crowds are getting bigger the reason why  on Black Friday trends, stores are open earlier and stay open late. Most of the shoppers are competing for discounts on gifts that everybody wants of course.

Marshal Cohen said; " The more people, the more the occurences," industry analyst with market research firm The NPD Group.

More discount this coming weekend as expected more shoppers will come as well, 3/4 of the amount serves as their discount, offered to 152 million shoppers either online or in stores.

Black Friday, a thanksgiving weekend is huge for retailers over the past years. ShopperTrak is expected to release data on Saturday on how Black Friday played for retailers as what they have released last year which accounted to a 12.1 percent of overall holiday sales.

In addition,compared last year this year retailers opened earlier and consumers benefits the competition among stores since most of the retailers match their price to the competitors, even provide layaway programs and more door-buster deals than last year.

More news on how Black Friday plays on the world of a million consumers in US at CNN, and other News Website...

Fortune Coins

I challenged myself last week to put together a craft project just for fun actually since I am not that really busy on other things and obviously using materials only out from my own desk. I realize my office desk is already like a craft store with so many things you can think of out of it, so it wasn't too challenging that time  just a matter of finding everything I have squirreled away. 6 lockets, 8 key chains, 3 packs of shrink y-dink film, and unused rubber stamps were some of the things that you can find on my desk, while looking around you may still find another 6 packs of wooden coins I had bought 2 years ago from someone 10 miles away from home.

Where Do Broken Hearts Go?

This blog was created in the intention of learning not just our own self but others as well, especially towards our partners. I thought that by reaching out to couples who have made it work, that might gain the hope needed for some who have failed to move forward in their quest for love.

Turns out, the plan worked. More than a number of individuals get into my venture, the black veil lifted. I learned about working together, communication and commitment. I learned that a real relationship is challenging, but that if both individuals are truly in it for the right cause, it’s truly worth all the struggle. Delight comes and goes, but real love is always there, masking systems, minds and spirits like a hidden swath of clothing. Love shields you. It warms you. Generally, it’s got you covered.

All the amazing readers were truly changing their perception. I was happy and quite ready to share the things and as well as to find the outcome among the readers.

So one couple offered the chance sharing the experience.  Here it goes: A few steps forward, and landed in something quite lovely. For awhile, they were beginning to feel tiny whispers of love through their ears, dangling like invisible pearl earrings. Then dropped into their coffee, like pearls of sweet joy. Then soon it was floating through their bloodstream like hope.The caffeine that let them feel awake.

Turns out, thought it would not be enough for them. Like all the times before, when a smile or foreign language, or the fact like going out to a dinner twirling like a bellierina but this time it is different for both of them. This time, they looked for the things they have learned about how the alignment of couples values, their shared world and emotional capacity. They never cared to noticed those things before until it burst thought as clear as the sky.

In every relationship, each of us may have different reasons, several reason, many reasons however that wouldn't be enough and all of those are just base on hours of careful thought and tons of reflection. It doesn't even make it any easier.


Love was like a slinky. We need to grasp about it. And we need to remember, all of these are just borrowed thus it isn't ours to hold for long nor forever, but it is for us to cherish each moment.

I've been wondering a lot, when you lose your heart, where does it go? Does it stuck into a corner of your body you cant think of or blend with the environment? Does it recoil into its own like a turtle in its shell, retreating from the world? Or does it just go asleep? Taking a break from feeling for awhile as it slowly begins to mend?

We might as well like to think that our hearts were just asleep. Letting it rest during hard times and the struggle of break up, giving time and being gentle is the best key of finding where your heart is during break ups.

Being stunned in a few minutes, I felt it beating quietly inside my chest and awake. But upon pondering on those past break up? It just say not ready yet for another round, but ready to start the journey from the beginning where it last left off. Ready to start believing again. Ready to keep trying. But believing and trying for the same person called to be my partner...

Stay tuned......

KISSES OF APPROVAL

Part 1

Working women have no shortage of decisons to make, including what to wear between the hourse of daytime and night time. Designers are also flocking out there to outfit this growing market of smart, chic dressers. 

One of the fashion that gets their attention is this weekend open trend, why so called this kind of trend? It is because this kind of trend are suited for weekends, the Zappos for example. A number of brands on deepish discount during weekends including Stuart Weitzman, Elizabeth and James L.A.M.B., Sigerson Morrison, and - wait for it- Salvatore Ferragamo.- perfect for the quickly approaching season for holiday and upcoming yuletide season. This I classify as kisses of approval, since I am not a fashion expert here but  have to ask readers out there for their approval instead.

These item cost $360, but are sold right now in the market to $216 at Zappos. 

Stay tune for the next part of trends that are classified as the kisses of approval..................

Consider Reduction Statements and Affirmations That Work

Weight loss affirmations are essential when it comes to attaining quick body weight loss and to getting the results that last a life-time.

Because of this, people who have used alternatives like NLP or self-hypnosis along with exercise and appropriate eating habit programs have drastically higher effectiveness when it comes to lasting and healthy bodyweight loss.

Of course, it's vital that you understand the how's and why's of  weight loss affirmations so that you can take advantage of them and gain success that will last. So if you can't wait to get to your ideal bodyweight and to enjoy more energy and self-esteem, this straigh-to-the-point method for using weight loss affirmations is just the thing for you.

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STEP ONE: Set Your Goal Weight

The first element to develop effective fat reduction statements and affirmations is to define a specific target weight you would pleased about accomplishing. A lot of individuals who want to lose bodyweight end up with errors of informing themselves that all they want to do is shed bodyweight. The error there is that you've been qualified to think of sacrificing something as being a bad element, so when your subconscious is met with the thought of losing, it normally associates it with a bad feelings. You also aren't giving your self a particular target to aim at. Vagueness doesn't help here!

If you think about it, no one really wants to shed bodyweight. What individuals really want is to arrive at their recommended bodyweight which is what makes all the difference when it comes to quick fat reduction.

TIP: To choose your recommended bodyweight, it's an excellent option to start with an excellent goal for bodyweight calculator or check out your medical professional. Don't try to set a certain bodyweight merely by questioning or because you think only that kind of weight will satisfy you.

Theories of Dreams

"Dreams are the touchstones of our characters." - Henry David Thoreau

Dreams have fascinated philosophers over a thousand years, but recently dreams have been subjected to in dept research and concentrated scientific study. The thing is you'll get to be stuck in a corner puzzling your mind over a mysterious content of a dream, or perhaps you'll think why you dream at all.

First, let's start answering- What is a dream? A dream consist of images, thoughts and emotions experienced when asleep. It can be extraordinarily vivid or vague, some are joyful thoughts, most often frightening imagery; focused and understandable or unclear and confusing.

Let Me Love YOU?

Can love really wait? Oftentimes, material comforts are not what we really needs nor love needs. Love needs time and effort and that is exactly what the main lead lacks..

The next paragraph from here will give us a little understanding how does love works...

There was a guy who was very much in love with this girl. The romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company and his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. However one day, his girl told him she is going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so she wanted to go separate ways there and then... The guy was heartbroken but he agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his mind and body just to make a name for himself. Finally with plenty of hard work and the help of friends, he managed to set up his own company.

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself.
"I must make it in life!"

One rainy day, while the guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. He deliberately drove slowly beside the couple,hoping they spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore. He had his own company, car, condominium, etc. He had made it in life!

Before he realized it, the couple was entering a cemetery. He got out of his car and followed them. There, he saw his ex-girlfriend. A photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone. He saw his precious paper cranes placed in a bottle beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them how did this happen. They explained that she did not leave for France after all. She was ill stricken with cancer. In her heart, she believed that he will make it in life someday. However. she did not want her illness to be his obstacle. Therefore she chose to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her because if the day comes when fate brings him to her again, he can take some of them back with him. The guy wept miserably. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.

The End.

A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to.

Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.

WHAT IS MY PURPOSE?--LEARN HOW TO SEARCH FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR PURPOSE

"What is my purpose"..A big question in life that none can compare nor even can stand a chance of answering it. 

Searching for your self and your purpose in life sounds a lot difficult that what most people think. Oftentimes, when asking people what is their pupose of existence could lead to a doubtful goals and duties, even routines.

Here are some of those: being a good person, being a better parent, being a good friend, a good adviser...and these are just all important where everyone really wants to be a better person, a better parent and a better friend-which is exactly opposite of the reality.

If you really like to search the speicific purpose of one's life, one that makes you enthusiatic, or one that gives you the comprehension that the life you're living now is greater than your own self, then the best way is to step out from your own shell and overcome your own limits - how? just step out on your comfort zone and you'll see...

As what Zig Ziglar said on his book "Over The Top", "You will never succeed as a wandering generality, you must become a meaningful specific" So, if you're that eager to get specific about your earthly mission, then this strategies might as well give you a clear view on what's next to you - your life purpose.

SOUTHPAW VS ORTHODOX FIGHTER

The much awaited trilogy between the world's greatest fighter in the field of boxing, Manny "The Pacman" Paquiao and Mexico's very own Juan Manuel "EL Dinamita" Marquez has just collided. Pacquiao, a southpaw fighter, is said to be one of the main rival of his opponent, which is Marquez an orthodox fighter. A controversial fight that took last 2004 ended in an intriguing draw decision. Both of them met in the year 2009, their 2nd fight ended on a 1-point split decision, a very very close fight where Manny took home the belt. After those two fights, Marquez still claims to be the only fighter who can beat Manny(as seen in their last fight 2004 and 2009).

Upon hearing this, Manny managed and decided to take on Marquez for the 3rd and final battle between them to clear all doubts of their fights. Motivated Pacquiao trains hard which resulted a 9 weeks of training. On the otherhand, Marquez claimed that he is not going to make the same mistake like on his previous fight against other opponents and especially Manny Pacquiao.

Recently, we witness the two fighters exchanging punches, showing their strengths, their endurances, their abilities, their capabilities, their skills until the last 12th round. I, myself can really see who win and who loose. It may appear different to each of us, but that is what I felt. It is just that a matter of holding the honor nor the title I guess that's why they're trying to say things and trying to prove - statistically by numbers they say, saying about punches that were connecting and punches throwned. But we, viewers and audiences knew what happened on the ring. You, as viewers, should feel that as well.

However, as for the winner- a heartful congratulations and a triumph for you. Though it would be good if this triumph will be shed to everyone. I am thinking he is from Philippines- the only Christian nation in SE Asia. SO, how about sharing it to 7,107 islands. A title, a price of several wins I think would just be felt if this win is shared to everyone, right? Just a 2 cent from The Daily Time and Self Development Plan team. It is worth of a win, if the price is shed to each of the islands it may not be that much but giving it on every islands who cheered for you is more than enough.

UNDESTINED LOVE

People reading this story may think that what I did was not right and I understand that too... But that did not stop me from falling in love with one of my students.

I was 25 years old when I started teaching in high school. I was teaching Ukrainian. It was my first year teaching in high school and I was very nervous. When I applied for the job, they told me that I was too "young and inexperienced". However, since they really needed a teacher, they hired me. On the first day, a group of boys walked into the classroom laughing loudly and giving each other high-fives. I told them a couple of times to take their seats as I was standing in front of the room waiting for everyone to arrive. As I repeated it for the third time, one of the guys looked at me intensely and continued to stare. His face was full of surprise. Then he looked at the other boys and told them to take their seats. I felt kind of embarrassed by the way he looked at me.

Later, I found out his name was Landon. He was a senior required to take a foreign language in order to graduate. Landon was the head of the boys swimming team and was very handsome. He had girls swooning all over him. In the first week of school, I felt that I was treating him differently. He was serious in class and although the girls in class were all over him, he did not pay any attention to them and it surprised me.

Time passed quickly and soon, I had done about 2 months of teaching. One day, he was absent for a test and had to go for a make up test. I gave him the test after school. He sat down quietly and worked on the test for about 15 minutes. After which, he stopped and stared at me. I asked him what was wrong and his answer gave me a shock.

VAN CLASSICS 2011 HOLIDAY LEATHER 106 MOC

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The shoe displays in two colorways, black and brown mostly, as each welcomes boot laces and is available now through DQM  for $65 USD.

Crazy Crap

Crap in-Crap out. It's now time to end taking in craps. It's obvious but whatever you take in affects on whatever gets out from you, and I am not just referring to your waste or whatsoever. Eating dead-processed, sugared,preserved crap, how could you possible digest and feel good, lively, clear-headed and brave? Too much inappropriate.

You might be nodding your head and harmonize with what I am saying here but before anything else here's what really is going on underneath this scenario.

PASSIONATE SPARK: Get it... and Keep it

When people talks about saerching partners that they deeply wanna spend their whole life with, the topic invariably gets around to the topic "soulmates".

Soul mate has been what people thinking and looking- that special connection like you've "come home," like you never want to be apart. Some find this on their partner, but most of us encountered pitfalls around the whole soul mate mystery.

Basically the belief of having no-conflicts and non-major issues to work through are main pitfalls in one soul mate spark evolution. They have pure bliss all of the time. We wish this were real but unfortunately it just don't happen for most of us. This is why people easily gets upset and disenchanted when they find that perfect someone who they consider as their soul mate and it turns sour worse bitter after a few months or even just weeks.

At first, there are reasons behind their soul mates that drive them crazy but later they will realize that there are conflicts between them and the passion just seems to disappear.

Somehow there are a lot of soul mates out there for different times in our lives and they come not only to give gladness but to enrich us with our personal and spiritual growth. A soul mate agrees to be with you for awhile to learn and also teach. A soul mate relationship is a spiritual bond and the trials that arises are the soul lessons that you both agreed to learn together.

We believe that just as your various soul mates can be a part of your life "for a time being,a reason or a season"-- most of us believe that soul mates can be stopped when you both know that there are no benefits to consider already.

A DARING ADVENTURE

I was exploring awhile ago, surfing the net - hence I was pondering some goal setting on how to get rich, being happy and how to find myself. Searching on how to engage a smarter method in a achieving your goal are always been available through the world wide web nor on books. It has been a mystery and a non stop job of explaining a Smarter goals. However, I encourage you to read more resource to acquire more understanding and find new cool stuff especially on professionals who wants life coaching. I, don't consider myself enough to guide someone through life but through this I may inspire and enlighten one's life.

Learning to write something towards goal and without knowing how to set it up nor start it within his self is like creating the most famous recipe around the world without any access on what utensils to use, kitchen or even the main ingredient. It may sound great at first nor in theories, but in the long run it is doubtful to everybody.

The approach for this topic would take most of your time, you might be wasting it if you only have few minutes to spend on this one. I'm not being flippant by saying this, some people might think I'm being unreal, though this one is a big taboo. Speaking hypothetically, we will be using some goals that I have read about.

Each one of us knows our goal, or rather the one's the we will tackle here but that isn't always the case to other people. Most of us doesn't have any idea of what they really want to achieve in life and for me I say that's normal. I'll not try to dig deeper on how you find your purpose in life in this post, but let me share to you several point of views toward discovering the path to your goals.

THE WAY TO BLISS

The deliberate focus of each person for ones own self-improvement and self-realization of desires, wants and goals are basically considered as self-development or rather personal development. It may come physically, through experience, spiritually, mentally, or even emotionally. Self Development has been a prerequisite of exploring one self from outer to inner part of an individual. To start a development within ourselves, one should realize a higher level of desire which can overpass negative qualities and behaviors over the past days.

It is not that easy of starting ones own development - your mind, body and spirit. Basically, if you haven't realize what you really want and what are your desires in life then it is impossible that you can achieve any development within your self. However, if you know what you really want, your needs and desires, your aim and goal in life and then you draw them out, that's the best time you can work on the road that could lead you in achieving your goal and desire. The best way to achieve them is to draw them - plan what is best in achieving them, gaining things that can help you acquire them. Hence, failure of doing this is unlikely you will ever achieve them.

Embrace the delight of self-development - through mind, body and spirit:

1. Goal Setting

2. Newton's Law of Magnet

3. Unhelpful Thinking

4. Positive Affirmations

5. Limiting Beliefs

6. Limiting Exercises

7. Reciprocating Cycle

8. The Mind

9. Breathing

10. Gratitude

11. Self Esteem

Each of these tools are essential in achieving personal development. Either way around it helps you know your way if you are on the right track and keeps your mind refreshed, then helps you find out the best goal to set, the best tool to use, the best attitude to implement, and the best person you may be.

Each tools will be discussed on the next chapter, stay tuned for more and be enlightened.........

WHO WE ARE...

Our brands, milestones, aim and visions are teamed up and composed with other researchers who loves to explore the world of men - the new generations, their fashion and lifestyle compared to the latter. Recently formed of various researchers from several trusted resources.

Contents for every topics are from several resources and are given with credits. The topics covered are for individuals seeking tenants for a positive self development, and how about reading and being successful in merely 30 days, topics that talks fashion of citizens and humanity, and how about reading a diary of disillusioned dater, understanding men and women are covered as well and most of all the occasion that we will be facing - the holidays, celebrations that fall on events page.

Daily Time includes activities that improve awareness and identity of one self, advises that develop talents and potential, engage human capital and asses quality of life and contribute to the realization of dreams and aspirations. The concept is not limited to self help but includes formal and informal activities for developing others. Lastly, as self development takes place in every day living, it refers to the procedures utilized for the support of one's own development along with his neighborhood within the community or outside his boundary.